Many adults question whether they have been affected by alcoholism. If someone close to you has, or has had a drinking problem, the following questions may help you in determining whether alcoholism affected your childhood or present life.

1. Do you constantly seek approval and affirmation?

2. Do you fail to recognize your accomplishments?

3. Do you fear criticism?

4. Do you overextend yourself?

5. Have you had problems with your own compulsive behavior?

6. Do you have a need for perfection?
Are you uneasy when your life is going smoothly, continually anticipating problems?

8. Do you feel more alive in the midst of a crisis?

9. Do you feel responsible for others, as you did for the problem drinker in your life?

10. Do you care for others easily, yet find it difficult to care for yourself?

11. Do you isolate yourself from other people?

12. Do you respond with anxiety to authority figures and angry people?

13. Do you feel that individuals and society in general are taking advantage of you?

14. Do you have trouble with intimate relationships?

15. Do you confuse pity with love, as you did with the problem drinker?

16. Do you attract and seek people who tend to be compulsive?

17. Do you cling to relationships because you are afraid of being alone?

18. Do you often mistrust your own feelings and the feelings expressed by others?

19. Do you find it difficult to express your emotions?

20. Do you think that parental drinking may have affected you?

Alcoholism is a family disease. Those of us who have lived with the disease as children sometimes have problems which the Alanon program can help us to resolve. If you answered yes to some or all of the above questions, Alanon may help. You can contact Alanon by checking your local telephone directory or by writing to:

AL-ANON FAMILY GROUP HDQTRS, INC.
PO BOX 182,MADISON SQUARE STATION
NEW YORK, NY 10159-0182